People choose direct cremation for many reasons. Even if the family chooses direct cremation because they don’t plan to have full funeral services, that doesn’t mean they want to be totally hands-off. After all, direct cremation could have been the choice of the deceased, not the next of kin.
A question that we get asked a lot is whether or not a cremation can be viewed, similar to the way a graveside service is conducted for burial. The answer we give is always the same – it depends.
You Can’t Be In the Room With the Crematory Operator
You have to be clear when you ask if you can view the cremation. To some people that means being in the room where the cremation is occurring while others are simply wanting to see the body go into the retort.
Under no circumstance will the crematory operator allow a family member to be in the room with the machinery. This is a serious safety risk given that the retort operates under high heat and explosions have been known to happen.
If this is what you were hoping for, unfortunately it just isn’t possible. Any funeral home that says they can accommodate the request is violating safety regulations.
But You May Be Able to View the Cremation
You may not be able to be in the room for safety reasons, but there’s still a possibility that you could view the cremation. Some crematoriums have special viewing areas. This is a place in the funeral home where there is a window that allows you to see into the area with the cremation chamber.
From the viewing area you will be able to see the crematory operator as they ready the equipment. You’ll then be able to witness the deceased being put into the retort and see the start of the cremation. Typically, the viewing includes just the initial part of the cremation since the process can take several hours to complete.
How to View a Cremation
The biggest factor for family members that want to view a direct cremation is selecting the right funeral home. If you have any special requests it’s important to ask them up front before signing a service contract.
Specifically ask if you will be able to view the cremation. If the answer is yes, ask to see the viewing area so you know what to expect. Some funeral homes may even let you have a few moments with the body before it’s taken into the cremation chamber.
Also ask how many people can be accommodated for a viewing. The viewing space may be limited to just a few people.
There you have it. Viewing a cremation from a distance is possible at some funeral homes. However, the more important question is should you view the cremation? For some people it’s cathartic closure, but for others it can be an overwhelming experience.
Want simplified direct cremation services that still allow you to be part of the process? Contact Direct Cremate by phone or text for more information and personal assistance.
